Episode 05

Sentosa Can Be Our Bali, Honey

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Cold Feet, Spinning Head, Worried Heart

Posted by Hui Leng

25 Sep 2009

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How could he? I thought couples were supposed to share everything??? Am I wrong? Or do I not fully understand the man I’m about to marry? I’m getting a little worried, and scared. But also, losing his job was surely very painful for him. No Leng, you have to be strong, have to stand by your man.

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XiaXueYi
XiaXueYi says

I think, as a marriage couple-to-be, the signs would already have been pretty obvious.

If he’s tense every time the issue of money (or something to do with it : the wedding, the ring, etc.) is broached upon, as the other half, you have to see or realise that something is wrong.

Talk to him about it, but don’t force him to say everything and anything if he doesn’t want to. All the little nuances to look out for as husband and wife.

Take every day together as a chance of getting some experience and understanding about each other. You can never know *everything* about someone else.

September 30, 2009, 3:14 pm |

huileng
Hui Leng says

I don’t have to know *everything* about him… I just want him to share enough with me so that I can help him shoulder his burdens. He shouldn’t have to carry them alone. :(

September 30, 2009, 4:07 pm |

Ayin
Ayin says

hui leng, you need to be
S-E-N-S-I-T-I-V-E..=)

November 10, 2009, 2:29 pm |

    huileng
    Hui Leng says

    I will certainly try!

    November 12, 2009, 11:21 am |

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