What’s On The Outside Counts Too
Wow, that fight between John and Leng nearly did the whole wedding in. That’s really scary. To trust yourself with someone else so completely. Somehow, I don’t think I’m ready for it yet. But will I ever be? Maybe marriage is not for me. Oh, but Norman was so sweet the other day, when he came over to show me photo locations at Sentosa, and ask me if I want to be his recce model. Of course! More pictures for my portfolio. Plus some eye candy to look at too. And then he saw my huge refrigerator, that is so necessary for work and also for entertaining clients at my dinner parties, and he went MAD, I tell you, MAD over my fridge magnets! The dear boy also has a weakness (or is it a fetish? Hmmmm) for fridge magnets, and he collects them too! He offered to show me his, and maybe I will take him up on that.
Sentosa Can Be our Bali, Honeyposted by Anna
There Never Is A Right Timeposted by John
Cold Feet, Spinning Head, Worried Heartposted by Hui Leng
Getting Back To Painting With Lightposted by Norman
I’m As Cool As A Cauliflowerposted by Boon Huat
It’s Time For Some Extreme Measuresposted by Hui Min
Comments (5)
if you ever get married to Mr.Norman, you should wear a northpole gown, and he should wear a southpole tux, and then buy a fridge for a bed. And! The magnetic fettish is so emblematic of the mutual attraction isn’t it, though you can’t guarantee repulsion wont ever happen
September 26, 2009, 12:25 am |
Who is getting married to whom???!!!???
September 27, 2009, 11:30 pm |
Last time I checked, I certainly wasn’t getting married to anyone! Oh dear me. And it’s not a fetish, it’s a hobby. Like collecting stamps, but less nerdy.
September 28, 2009, 12:35 am |
Yeap, there is a major disadvantage for a couple to trust each other completely.
That is, they are completely, and I mean completely vulnerable to each other. The slightest misstep would have major repercussions.
It’s scary. But to be able to be transparent towards your partner, that would be the “highest level” the mutual connection can reach. You could say or do something, and the other half would be able to appreciate that…’openness’ (for lack of a better word).
Ironically, nowadays there are too many people (women more often, but men too) who ask for ‘truth’. Then when their significant other tells them “the truth”, they get freaked out. Get totalled. Or say stupid things like “I’d rather you keep lying (beautifully) to me…
That is just plain silly. I feel that many of the adults of today are still children in the mindset. No offence.
Well regarding this, I think it’ll be best to exercise prudence – depending on how “open-minded” the other person is.
September 30, 2009, 3:24 pm |
I was told this once and I kept it in my mind ever since: Never ask for the truth when you don’t want to hear it. =)
November 10, 2009, 2:46 pm |