Comments on: What’s On The Outside Counts Too

By: Ayin

Ayin — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 06:46:40 +0000

I was told this once and I kept it in my mind ever since: Never ask for the truth when you don’t want to hear it. =)

By: XiaXueYi

XiaXueYi — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 07:24:56 +0000

Yeap, there is a major disadvantage for a couple to trust each other completely.

That is, they are completely, and I mean completely vulnerable to each other. The slightest misstep would have major repercussions.

It’s scary. But to be able to be transparent towards your partner, that would be the “highest level” the mutual connection can reach. You could say or do something, and the other half would be able to appreciate that…’openness’ (for lack of a better word).

Ironically, nowadays there are too many people (women more often, but men too) who ask for ‘truth’. Then when their significant other tells them “the truth”, they get freaked out. Get totalled. Or say stupid things like “I’d rather you keep lying (beautifully) to me…

That is just plain silly. I feel that many of the adults of today are still children in the mindset. No offence.

Well regarding this, I think it’ll be best to exercise prudence – depending on how “open-minded” the other person is.

By: Anna

Anna — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 16:35:24 +0000

Last time I checked, I certainly wasn’t getting married to anyone! Oh dear me. And it’s not a fetish, it’s a hobby. Like collecting stamps, but less nerdy.

By: Norman

Norman — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 15:30:21 +0000

Who is getting married to whom???!!!???

By: BotakJane

BotakJane — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 16:25:44 +0000

if you ever get married to Mr.Norman, you should wear a northpole gown, and he should wear a southpole tux, and then buy a fridge for a bed. And! The magnetic fettish is so emblematic of the mutual attraction isn’t it, though you can’t guarantee repulsion wont ever happen